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Post by ericjohn on Jan 20, 2006 22:31:27 GMT -5
If you were happily married for 12 years, two kids, great job, new house, getting all the things you have been working hard for all your life finaly, had a great looking wife with great sex, so your not even looking for anything extra marital.
What would you do, if college age girls were comming on to you at the gym?
More than once and you know it's not some kind of college prank or anything cause its different girls that have no affiliation with each other.
Cheerleader types. Drop dead beautiful. The kind you see on these Girls Goine Wild tapes.
All you would have to do is meet them someplace.
What would you do?
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Post by Vince on Jan 21, 2006 3:58:39 GMT -5
Hi Eric, Well, I suppose that would depend on the type of moral value set any particular person had. If they believed in the sanctity of marriage and it was their goal to be always faithful to their wife, then I think the best thing to do is nip it in the bud (as Barny Fife would say). Nip it... nip it. On the rare occasion that someone starts coming on to me, I quickly try to bring my wife into the coversation. This has always worked for me without having to take it farther. I'll casually but quickly bring her up with something like "Oh I'm just browsing around this bookstore waiting on my wife to finish her shopping". The only time this doesnt work is when Bill C starts hitting on me... in which case I have to tell him over and over that I'm not interested. I believe that you cannot allow these "coming on" or flerting situations to linger on without letting the person know that you are taken and not available. Temptation is a very real thing for all people... and it's best not to allow yourself to linger in a situation in which you are tempted. By quickly letting another interested party know that you are taken and not interested, you are saving yourself alot of trouble resisting later when you've let it go too far.
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Post by BillCogswell on Jan 21, 2006 9:30:19 GMT -5
"The only time this doesnt work is when Bill C starts hitting on me... in which case I have to tell him over and over that I'm not interested."
LOLOL
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Post by getgoin on Jan 21, 2006 20:15:33 GMT -5
I live by "loyalty above all else", so I say, nip it...nip it.
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Post by BillCogswell on Jan 21, 2006 20:19:06 GMT -5
Yeah I agree with getgoin, honestly I have never considered cheating on my wife in the 14 years we've been together. If I were in that situation I would enjoy the flattery but make it clear I was married and would never give any impression otherwise.
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Post by ericjohn on Jan 21, 2006 20:23:26 GMT -5
Yeah,
I think they are just trawling anyway. I got too much to lose to throw it away on something like that.
Shoot, I got my share back in the day, so I ain't missin out on anything.
Later
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Post by victorparlati on Jan 22, 2006 21:05:29 GMT -5
"If you were happily married for 12 years, two kids, great job, new house, getting all the things you have been working hard for all your life finaly, had a great looking wife with great sex, so your not even looking for anything extra marital."
***WITH ALL THAT goin' for ya, ericjohn...why would you even think about taking a chance on throwing it all away? I could see if there was something important to you that was missing from your relationship with your wife - but that's not the case, is it? If by some chance your wife found out about it - it could be all over.
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